Did i lose my virginity or not?
hi when i was 14 (im now 15) i was raped on holiday, and i wanted to know have i had my virginity stolen from me? It sometimes makes me angry when i think about how something so special could be taken away without my consent. I also havent told my boyfriend about what happened and its frustraiting because i want to be open with him but without hurting him, i wouldnt know how to find a good time to talk about something like this.
thankyou for your help
1 comment:
You can turn this pain into pride. This lad could have done this to lots of other girls and might still be doing it! He's sick and evil and nasty. You should get a full health check to put your mind at rest. Its big thing but then you can get the help you need..and no one should carry that around with them alone.. if you report this crime..it wasn't long ago and they will totally understand why you've not spoken up beforenow. He needs to be punished, your evidence could be vital.
As for your question, tell your boyfriend, then he can understand why you need to take things veery slowly and how when you do, it needs to be in a loving relationship, and not spur of the moment...you can't expect him to read your mind. Virginity can be taken away by lots of things , horseriding (oh yes) a doctor needing to examine you etc, that isn't making love and nor was being raped, so it doesn't count!
You are still a virgin, take it slowly, and please... save the poor girls who he will prey on this summer.My daughter is now 16, I'd hate her to face this alone, and yes,your Mum will sufer a bit but she will help you do the right thing. I think you can arrange to give your evidence to a trained lady police offier at your local station.you are worth 11 of him. Wouldn ... be great if this year , he got caught..
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